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Matthews: Marriage is a fundamental right PDF Print E-mail
Written by Lenny Matthews   
Friday, 16 May 2008

It was 60 years ago that the California State Supreme Court became the first in our nation to overturn the law banning interracial marriage. At the time this law had strong public support, based – as we all know – on “superiority of the white race.”


It is my belief, as a lesbian, that the current heart of marriage prohibition is an attempt to keep homosexuals inferior. You might not like that but look closely at the information I present to you today. Change starts with you.


Marriage is a “fundamental right of free men,” wrote Justice Traynor. “Legislation infringing such rights must be based on more than prejudice.” As such this is in direct violation of the equal protection laws. A marriage license is a legal document, not a sacred one. The marriage is not sacred through the government but through the individuals themselves.


Marriage triggers 150 to 250 laws in every US state and, on a federal level, more than 1,040. These civil laws to be just and fair should apply to ALL citizens equally. In America there is NO state church and NO religious body has the right to dictate state policy. And would someone please remind our president of this!


Again, a state marriage license is not a religious one. Quoting Joan Ryan from the SF Chronicle, “If preserving the sanctity of marriage were truly the impetus behind Bush’s campaign to ban gay marriage, he also would be championing a constitutional amendment against Elvis wedding chapels and drive-through ceremonies. He’d be calling for a ban against 20-year-olds marrying 85-year-old billionaires, and a ban against Hugh Hefner ever walking down the aisle again.”


Let me share with you a few of the rights triggered by a legal marriage that are difficult or impossible to duplicate by other legal documents:


Automatic assumption of spouse’s pension


Automatic inheritance


Automatic housing lease transfer


Bereavement leave


Burial determination


Property rights


Child custody


Crime victim recovery benefits


Domestic violence protection (most cities don’t cover same sex abuse)


Exemption from property tax on partner's death


Immigration access for the foreign spouse of a US citizen


Immunity from testifying against spouse


Insurance breaks


Joint adoption


Joint bankruptcy


Joint parenting


Medical decisions on behalf of partner


Name change if desired


Visitation rights hospital and prison


Wrongful death benefits.


Domestic partners, however, provide a second-class status that is legally and socially restrictive. It offers few benefits and those that it does can be removed quickly by attorney generals, such is the case in Hawaii and Texas. It is not portable from state to state. Some have suggested that making some kind of parallel structure to marriage, and of course calling it something other than marriage would satisfy all. Many others and I strongly disagree. Again a division would be established and full equality would not prevail.


Throughout our globe change is happening. Lesbian and gay people have had a history of being under attack in this country. State and federal courts have examined civil rights cases for severity of discrimination by different groups and concluded, that sexual minorities do require the same level of constitutional protection.


I celebrate in our California Supreme Court's decision for if this is truly a country of freedom and rights the public should not have the ability just vote away the rights of others! Please remember this in November, for this battle is not over.


Lenny Matthews lives in Lucerne.


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Kruk Ed Strait - Homosexual marriage is... Author | 05-18-2008 11:31:58
....a sin. Homosexuals are not a minority race, as Matthews writes. This is the big lie being spread by militant homosexual activists. Mathews claims "fundamental" rights when he means inalienable rights. He won't say inalienable because everyone knows God gives analienable rights and God destroyed Sodom and Gomorra. The Pope is right. Every homosexual act is a sin.
smurf - yep! Registered | 05-18-2008 11:37:41
the sad thing here is once again the republicans will use this issue to help them at the voting booth in November, they did it shamelessly in 2000 in california and nationally in 2004-thank Karl Rove for that.
This time the good people have to say loud and clear "bigotry is un-American and Californians will not tolerate it anywhere in our society, and certainly not in our laws".
The good people need to point out that the cruelty directed towards the LGBTG community is inhuman and un-Christian, and it divides our nation rather than strengthens it. And they need to vote!
max - misinformed, careless,or misin Registered | 05-18-2008 12:08:10
While I agree in some of lenny's argument, it is apparent that she is overboard in her listing of what is not available to individuals. We have provided protection and contracts. to deal with name changes to the most important right of protection (victims) for everyone. Real Estate Law is non gender, and has civil rights protections. So lenny do your homework, applaud the work of a lot of us working for all people, and make your points after actual accurate research.

In fact you could do alot of good if you take your causes to the public researched and your energy released in getting to putting responsibility to the problems and naming the correct people without bias either way to gender or orientation.
Baxter - thank you, Lenny, Registered | 05-18-2008 13:28:07
for an articulately stated case. The analogy to the old prohibition against inter-racial marriage is exactly correct. The ban against same-sex marriage is about prejudice and nothing else. Thank you to the CA supreme court for acknowledging the simple truth that separate is not equal.

Too many people are convinced that because they believe something, that means God must agree with them. They insist they speak for God, when in truth, they speak only for their own prejudiced selves.

Anyhow, bravo for the CA supreme court for doing the right thing.
smurf - Lenny is- Registered | 05-18-2008 14:33:01
"a militant homosexual activist"? I'm telling Homeland Security! I'm sure they'll consult the bible in order to determine the correct punishment, which I imagine will involve stones or fire.
Nice to see Darrell on the same side as Hitler and The Islamic leadership of Iran, birds of a feather, eh?
The encouraging thing about this subject is that EVERY year the good people are closer to their goal-equality and freedom for everyone, the reason for this is that the dinosaurs like darrell are dying off faster than new bigots can be created. Hallelujah!
lcsage - Homosexuality is NOT normal Registered | 05-18-2008 14:49:40
by any stretch of the imagination. It is a sin against God and man. It is an abomination. One only has to look at the commandments in Leviticus. The gays want to twist and pervert society's standards of decency, definitions etc. They even have a gay bible that panders to their disgusting lifestyle. Civil unions yes, marriage NFW.
Donna Christopher - Right On Lenny!! Author | 05-18-2008 14:53:14
Just came from the Relay for Life - needless to say there was lots of opportunity to shoot the bull. This topic came up. The folks that had happy solid marriages were ok with this happening. The folks who couldn't make their marriages work were against it - they could not name ONE specific reason, they just "didn't like it". Me thinks they don't want others to be happy with someone they love. EQUAL PROTECTION UNDER LAW - period.
Donna Christopher - Oh lcsage, you must Author | 05-18-2008 15:03:39
have confused the issue of gay marriage with an unprovoked/unjust war with the issue when you wrote "to twist and pervert society's standards of decency" - I think you have the gay/lesbian community confused with the Bush Administration. I respect your religious beliefs - so what do you care if in your mind they will burn in hell for eternity, you obviously like don't care for them - that ought to make you dance a jig. Some day someone may decide you are not entitled to EQUAL PROTECTION UNDER LAW.
Stewart - Donna Registered | 05-18-2008 15:56:22
why must you bring your USA bashing comments to the gay plate? Sure all should have equal protection. Just don't try to change definitions to pander to a particular group, and don't call it normal.
Kruk Ed Strait - Stewart is right... Author | 05-18-2008 16:34:10
..if homosexual acts are sins, as the Pope says (he gets it from the Bible), then it, like any other sin, spreads and infects others. Whole cities and countries can be converted. Donna wants to compromise with infectious sinful acts and doesn't know it will impact her own family, one day soon,...that is if the Bible is right.
Donna Christopher - Gee Darryl, I didn't IP:12.206.148.xxx | 05-18-2008 18:46:30
know you cared. So homosexuality is contagious? Oh No Any idea on the incubation period, I've know gay people my entire adult life, I'm starting to get a tad long in the tooth, should I be preparing my hubby of almost 30 years that any day now I will wake up gay "...that is if the Bible is right." Oh ye of little faith - does your God know you doubt him? Oh No - I support Obama, am I going to wake up bi-racial? What if I wake up bi-racial and gay And Stewart if you kindly have your anal-encephalic interface tended to by a physician (or chiropractor) you will see that it was not my country I was bashing - it was the suds swilling, coke snorting, draft dodger s.o.b. that sits in the oval office. You know the guy, he's easy to spot - he's the one that cannot form a complete sentence. Not running for office so don't see how believing in equal rights is pandering.
smurf - OK... Registered | 05-18-2008 19:38:15
Donna, you have just made my list of Lake County women that would make a FAR better president than Hillary, and even that clueless, ruthless, pandering monster would be an improvement over dubbya.

Sure is funny hearing the alledged "Christians" whine about the sinful ways of the gays, where were you when the US Air Force was bombing Iraqi power and water plants, the ones who's destruction caused the deaths of a half million Iraqi children? I don't seem to recall Jesus giving sermons on either gay marraige or abortions, I tend to believe if he felt those were important issues he'd have mentioned them.
The people in this country who are against gay marraige are almost always old, uneducated, supportive of any and all of our wars, for the death penalty, and choose punishment over rehabilitaion for criminals-all un-Christian principles.
Those people are neither true Christians or true patriots, they represent the dark side of humanity, the side without compassion or intellectual honesty.
Stewart - You always lash out Registered | 05-19-2008 10:29:55
at those you don't agree with by calling them unpatriotic and areligious. Your statistics are always exaggerated. Actually it is you that is unpatriotic with your constant bashing of this country. You are the disgrace and probably have a sodomite in your woodpile someplace. I am sure you and big D support Code Pink. You should consider moving to the Castro.

Semper Fi
Stewart - Together Registered | 05-19-2008 10:31:19
now that I think about it.
lenny - Federal Rights Denied Registered | 05-19-2008 10:56:48
FEDERAL BENEFITS DENIED HOMOSEXUALS

Category 1: Social Security and related programs, Housing , and Food Stamps
Category 2: Veterans Benefits
Category 3: Taxation
Category 4: Federal, Civilian and Military Service Benefits
Category 5: Employment Benefits and related Statutory Provisions
Category 6: Immigration, Naturalization and Aliens
Category 7: Indians
Category 8: Trade, Commerce and intellectual Property
Category 9: Financial Disclosure and Conflict of Interest
Category 10: Crimes and Family Violence
Category 11: Loans, Guarantees and Payments in Agriculture
Category 12: Federal Natural Resources and Related Natural Provisions
Category 13: Education

The aftermath of September 11th, in which same-sex partners were denied Federal Benefits, made this terribly clear! And of course, Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell!! You’re kidding right!!

I submit to you all….enough is enough!!
Donna Christopher - Thanks Lenny Author | 05-19-2008 11:27:16
Again you bring light to a serious subject to which Stewie only brings ill informed heat.
lcsage - Thanks Lenny Registered | 05-19-2008 16:11:01
You, Donna and Smurfette have said nothing that makes any real sense. It appears if you don't agree with them, they take potshots at you. They need to leave the house once in awhile.
smurf - pot this shot... Registered | 05-20-2008 00:51:50
thanks to people like oldage and stewy we are stuck in two unwinnable wars, and the country is bankrupt. I don't shill for anyone, not the dems, not the greens-no one. I critisize friend and foe alike, for one reason: to promote progress, and I can fact you two under the table anytime you care to debate a subject on it's merits-which never happens.
purplegirl - Hot But Important IP:208.106.99.xxx | 05-20-2008 12:15:13
Wow, hot issue but I think it is an important one.

Marriage, as sacred as some may hold it, was originally (and still is, in many places) an act of commerce (not an act of religion or even love). In fact, in the beginning, marriage was arranged in accordance with a dowry (what the man could provide for the woman's family in exchange for the woman). Marriage, if you think about it, used to be a form of slavery.

I mention this only to remind people that this court decision is not a decision about religion it is a decision about human beings and how they should be treated. I would hope that we would have moved pass treating others as second class citizens. Unfortunately, it seems, many of us haven't. I say to those people, if you really want to be "biblical" with your marriage, try polygamy or allowing your husband a few concubines or a few other things I probably can't mention without being banned because these are all things that seem to be perfectly okay with the Biblical God. I think, I hope, we have evolved from those days but sometimes I have to wonder... especially after hearing some of these comments. Let's try treating other people (no matter what race, creed or sex) as we would wish to be treated, that would be a good start.
James - Could care less. Registered | 05-20-2008 21:35:52
It has always been my point of view I could care less how you licky sticky, just leave it in doors. With all the problems we have lets put this on our plate as well. Hope all can live their life as desired. I'll answer to my God and you answer to yours. Semper Fi.
rkreeves - Gay Bible? Registered | 05-21-2008 12:18:42
Wow! I didn't know that Gays had their own Gay Bible! Cool! Can I check that out at the local Library? Is there a Gay Section in the Library for the Gay Books? (Don't we burn those?) Is there a Gay Heaven too? Separate but equal? What about Gay Church? What exactly do they do in Gay Church? Worship? Worship what? I'm confused! Hep me Jebus!
Stewart - James Registered | 05-22-2008 10:12:41
Licky Sticky. I like that. I agree, keep your alternate lifestyle and public displays of affection indoors. Do not call it marriage because it does not fit the standard definition, or the Biblical one.

Semper Fi
John - Oh come on Registered | 05-22-2008 14:34:05
Enough with this absurd idea that marriage is some religious thing. It's about assets and stability. Wasn't even all that common in the US till the industrial revolution and factories encouraged the working stiffs to get married because they'd be less likely to miss work after payday.
Why is it so many jokers think religion was even at the table? Read a book, learn that Christianity simply co-opted, read 'hijacked' all the trappings of druids and pagans, including all the holidays. It's a sham and it's more about control than faith. If you really have faith, why would you need a church?
An ancient African philosopher warned us about religion, he said that if you vest your belief in God through another, like a priest, what happens if that priest isn't really holy after all? I'm betting plenty of Catholics are wrestling with that one.
If people want to get married then power to em but if it's a holy sanctity issue than how come I got my license from the courthouse instead of the local pastor?
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