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Crail: Let’s stop the bullying PDF Print E-mail
Written by Chance Crail   
Monday, 02 November 2009
The bullying at Clear Lake High School needs to stop.


Typical memories of high school include sports, proms, homecomings and parties. Some people just remember a moment. Like the day she became prom queen, or the time he made the touchdown that won the game.


I’ve been a freshman for eight weeks now, and what an interesting eight weeks it has been. I’ve battled the horrors of Clear Lake High School, instead of avoiding them like the vast majority of my classmates.


As other freshmen walk the hallways in fear, they are driven by stories of unlucky freshmen that unknowingly let a foot slip into senior “territory” and ended up taped to the flagpole, or facing the reeking depths of a trash can.


These vividly told stories are the weapons with which the upperclassmen maintain an iron grip on their precious picnic tables, located conveniently on a concrete stage in the center of the school. This area, known as “The Quad” is off limits to freshmen by dictation of the upperclassmen. Of course, they can’t actually kick freshmen out; the idea is that because they’ve been in high school the longest, they deserve the special privilege of ‘owning’ the quad.


Upperclassmen also establish a dictatorship over freshmen as soon as school begins. The first day of school, there is a rally. This rally, meant to spark enthusiasm in students, begins with a performance by the cheerleaders. Applause, whistles and screaming dominate the large auditorium.


The cheerleaders then perform for each class separately, beginning with the freshmen. The applause and cat calls quickly turns into booing. Sophomores, juniors and seniors all turn towards the freshmen and the auditorium is filled with one big “boooooo!”


This “initiation,” known to the legal system of the California government as “hazing,” is not stopped, contained, managed or in any other way controlled by the school’s administration. In fact, some might say that the administration supports these barbaric activities. Perhaps that is because the administrators themselves took part in similar traditions when they where in high school.


This booing, or initiation, is a way of making freshmen feel inferior, as if the seniors have complete control over them. With the administration doing nothing to control the chaos, it shows the new freshmen that the administrators allow this behavior to exist, and gives the impression that they, too, believe the upperclassmen should have utmost dictatorship over other students.


These first impressions are said to be a joke by the majority of students I’ve talked to. But I would think it reasonable to say that a joke is only funny if everyone is laughing.


Being a strong supporter of students' rights, I strongly disagree with many of these “traditions” at Clear Lake High School, and I have made that very clear through my defiance of acceptance. During both of the rallies I attended of the three we’ve had this year, I have removed myself from the activity in protest as soon as booing commenced. I respect those who respect me, and booing my friends and I is not respectful, therefore I made it a point to occupy senior “territory” at lunch for a full week in order to show that I do not respect anyone who does not respect me.


Because I did this I received countless threats. I also received flying objects, including squadrons of watermelon, water bottles and food containers. From others I have received death threats and countless insults and warnings, including from the administrators themselves!


Multiple times I have heard someone say, “I am going to beat the s*** out of you.” I guess it’s just an example of how unwilling we are to put a stop to this barbaric culture and accept civilized ethics.


So, the next time someone asks me, “What are you going to remember about high school?” I have a feeling my answer is not going to consist of joyous memories from football games or rallies. As of right now I highly doubt it will contain any recollections of all the great times I was told I’d have in high school. No, I think my answer will be a little different, unless we call for change.


The best solution that my supporters and I can come up with to this problem is to work with the administration to create a new policy that would require upperclassmen to respect freshmen and would require freshmen to respect any senior territory that is noted by the policy.


Other ideas include the implementation of a more positive behavioral curriculum, or programs such as Challenge Day (http://www.challengeday.org/ ), workshops intended to increase students' understanding and connections to each other. Activities that create connections between students typically result in more friendly environments and safer schools.


The administrators are paid by the taxpayers to create a safe learning environment for all students attending their school. If the administrators can’t do this alone, as has been demonstrated, maybe the broader community of Lake County should step in and give them a hand.


Chance Crail is a freshman at Clear Lake High School.

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Time For Changes To Be Made
written by futhark, November 02, 2009
I'm sorry to learn that Clear Lake High School is allowing such hazing to continue. The administration, board, and teaching staff are placing themselves in a position of extreme legal liability by not taking positive steps to end the bullying.

The Lake County high school where my two (now grown) children attended was sliding into a similar institutionalized hazing mode a few years ago. Several teachers saw what was happening and spoke out against allowing such ugly "traditions" to become established. Some teachers discussed the problem in classes. Rally activities were monitored to minimize prejudicial content. Challenge Day was held two consecutive years (it should be an annual event). The school is still not perfect but there is widespread recognition that bullying, hazing, threats, and assaults create a negative atmosphere on campus that is contrary to its educational mission and to principles of fairness, American ideals of justice, and the law.

I hope the authorities at Clear Lake High School will see Chance's letter as an opportunity to recognize, investigate, and take corrective action to heal this disease in their student body.
I'm impressed....
written by HeartLakeCo, November 02, 2009
I'm impressed by the courage and thoughtfulness of this young man. I hope that the school board listens as he speaks the truth and moves to make immediate and necessary changes. The climate of hate and bullying that has been accepted as the status quo must stop.

If Chance has the courage to speak up, know that he is speaking for many who do not have the courage - or the support at home - to give voice to this injustice. Do not treat this matter lightly. Our children's lives, mental well-being, and our community in the future, depend on it. Bravo, Chance, bravo.
Hazing is Illegal And Must Be Stopped
written by lamar, November 02, 2009
I too applaud this young man for having the courage to speak out. Hazing, be it in high school, college or the military should not be tolerated. It's illegal. That means people who engage in it can be fined or go to jail. People who know it is illegal and allow it can find themselves in trouble, too. Just because you can get away with criminal behavior does not mean you are obliged to continue in it. I encourage this young man's parents file a complaint with the local police department and threaten a class-action lawsuit against the school's administration along with other parents whose children have been similarly abused.

Just three employees of the Securitas Security Service here in California filed a class-action lawsuit against their employer for denying them the right to eat lunch during a scheduled break period. Securitas should have known this was against California State Law. But, they thought they could get away with it. The class action lawsuit resulted in an out-of-court settlement for $15 million. See details at http://budurl.com/SecuritasSettlement. Some folks have to learn to be decent and respectful the hard way. I know of a gated residential community right here in Lake County whose restaurant chef is guilty of the same behavior. What's really amazing is that is that the restaurant manager and HR director knew of his crime and chose to cover up the crime by firing the employee who reported it. This taints the reputation of the entire residential community and could result in costly litigation.

Bottom line, don't haze. Don't cover-up criminal behavior. It's not worth it.

Lamar Morgan

first thing is to find their leader...
written by smurf, November 02, 2009
after you've killed him then drag his corpse into the quad, rip his heart from his chest and hold it high in the air and shout "Die mother*******s, die! After that everything should be smooth sailing-or you could just spend a ton of money on a lawyer!
go get 'em
written by ecco, November 02, 2009
i spent my high school years in very similar situations. i was a skateboarder kid in Northern Indiana at a time when that wasn't cool. there was very similar hazing that we had to deal with and i spent the better part of my high school years confronting the hazers and standing up for those that couldn't/wouldn't. i was usually the one that got into trouble for the situations that took place while standing up to the hazers, as the school staff didn't like the skateboarders any more than the hazers. but I'll tell you what, i am a stronger person because of it. and by the time i made it to senior, there was very little hazing that was directed at the skateboarders. Give it all you've got and don't let them get you down, you'll feel better about yourself in the long run. those that don't stand up for what they believe in at that age, tend to not stand up for themselves later and that just makes for a very feeble life. Go get 'em, and take no prisoners.
Chance? maybe not.
written by Olmossback1, November 02, 2009
You are definitely not the sharpest knife in the drawer. If you paint a target on yourself, and then get offended when somebody shoots at it, you don't have a right to start a national, or regional protest. I myself was the odd guy out, at Clearlake High when I attended years ago. But, I was smart enough not to challenge the seniors, on their own turf, at the beginning of the school year. They said a lot of mean things, but they are only words, get over it. If they harm you, in any way, that is a different situation. Ignore them, stay out of their way, and quit taking chances.
One thing is for certain
written by bearer, November 02, 2009
The writer of this article writes well above a first year high school student.

I see a bright and brilliant career in the literary arts.

Life is full of obstacles. The trick is learning how to manuever around them.
Not Quite True...
written by Nicino, November 02, 2009
I agree with Olmossback1, besides the booing at the rallies, nothing else would have happened to you. No one would target you, threaten you, or even acknowledge you. I am currently a student at CLHS and besides the booing nothing happens to freshmen. Nothing unless you do something like Chance. If you try to be different you have to be ready when people criticise you. Chance, you are trying to start a rebellion without supporters ready to help.
So what else does Chance
written by Donna Christopher, November 02, 2009
have to do Nicino - learn how to NOT spell correctly so he can fit into your mold? Try spell check next time - or a dictionary, hopefully you've learned how to use one of those by highschool (but I wouldn't bet a dime on that!) Stay true to yourself Chance and it seems you've already discovered if you're going to make an omelet, you have to break some eggs. And if everyone who was able to think outside the box or stand up for their rights waited until they had supporters for what they already KNOW is the right thing to do - you wouldn't be in High School Nicino, you'd be in the fields with the rest of us.
Tell the Whole Story
written by CLHSmom, November 02, 2009
Chance, you are not telling the whole story. You are leaving out YOUR blogspot called "thenextcolumbine.blogspot.com". Now, I want all the adults who are reading and/or responding to this commentary to consider what they would think of you if you were a student at their child's school -- suddenly not a hero or courageous person, but a threat. I know your blogspot has a disclaimer on it, but you do not control the connotations associated with words. The words "Columbine High School" brings images of students being killed in a high school massacre by other students who felt they were bullied. Your disclaimer can not erase that connotation. Let's all consider who the threat is. I followed your blogspot for a few days in September, when all of this began, and when you removed most of it a few days later, I thought things were calming down. But, you are continuing to stir things up. My understanding is that you do sit in the quad, with friends, and the majority of seniors treat you with respect. Acknowledge that the seniors who are harassing you are a few who do not have anything going for themselves. Stop stereotyping ALL the seniors, and step back and realize what threats you are making by your blogspot... the name of it sends chills down the spine of all of us.
Welcome to the real world.
written by cleo, November 03, 2009
People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. Truer words never spoken.
A Sense of Community
written by chezking, November 03, 2009
A recent study on the best effective size of a high school's student population was around 6-800 students. This was big enough to support extra activities like sports and music but not so large that the students got lost in the masses. Teachers knew the students by sight and personality and not by an generic filing and classification system.
I experienced the education factory known as LA City Schools. My 3 year HS packing 3000 kids in the early 70s. In comparison, both my kids flourished and excelled in the Kelseyville system, partly due to the fact that the school was too small and long established relationships too valuable to risk by splitting into a "clic". One could be smart, athletic, socially or fashion conscious or any combination and not be typecast or alienate your friends. This is advantage shared by all Lake County schools, unless one allows to let youthful passions run free.
It is pretty typical to have individuals both give and receive unwanted attention, particularly in high school, when passions, hormones and a new level of physical prowess are enclosed in an emotionally inexperienced and immature package. It is essential that the more mature and cooler heads in this environment rein in inappropriate actions in order to maintain a mutually supportive environment. For ANYONE to condone, let alone encourage behavior that creates segregation or oppression is unconscionable. Most of high school society is dysfunctional enough without condoning special rules for youth not one of us would allow in adult society.

While CLHSMom comment on Chance's blog title might reflect a real concern, it's one that was reported and accurately assessed by his parents and the administration as a case of hyperbole in order to drive home a message, hyperbole being something rarely seen on the Internet. If it is true that the situation is calming down as you report, it is due to a courageous stand by an individual IN HIGH SCHOOL, hopefully with growing support from the administration and the more mature of the upperclassmen. This is a rare thing and, as I told my kids after attending my 20th reunion, is something that will someday create an occasion when less willing or capable will step up to you and thank you for taking a stand. Hopefully the majority of Seniors at CLHS will do the right thing as well, even if it's only a fraction as difficult as the effort that Chance is making.
Olmossback1 and Nicino
written by Raphael, November 03, 2009
you are promoting cowardly compliance with an oppressive jungle law...no one should have to keep their head down in high school, school is not a battlefield and shouldn't be enemy territory.

We are all equal, and those who promote inequality based on race, gender or seniority are neanderthals who need some real education and adjustment.

Raphael
written by Olmossback1, November 03, 2009
We're not talkin' 'bout your turf dude. I think non-violent conflict resolution is right up there with unicorns, and fairies, when it comes to a believable working system. But you can't make everything a gang fight either. The new school system won't allow what works, which is a good butt kicking. And the days of one, on one, fair, and square, are very much over as well. So maybe a little less struttin' you crap, and a little more watchin' you butt, might be in order. Todays High Schools are little more than day care for spoiled brats anyway.
hyperbole
written by CLHSmom, November 04, 2009
Chance states in his comment "a joke is only funny if everyone is laughing". Same to be said about hyperbole. It has to be such an obvious exaggeration that everyone recognizes the hyperbole. Haven't spoke to a parent yet who sees the Columbine reference as hyperbole. It was in bad taste and bad judgment.
Boo Hoo
written by Safe boater, November 04, 2009
Lets coddle him some more so he can be ready for real life because in real life everything is fair, honest and there is no bullying by employers, wives ect..Get real, life experience is hard. Learn it, live it, love it.
amazing strength...
written by lenny, November 04, 2009
http://groundspark.org/respect-for-all
This is being implimented in Lake County Schools
Get in touch with Lake County Office of Education http://www.lake-coe.k12.ca.us/homex.asp?Q=Homepage
Your courage is VERY admirable! I wish you the best of luck.
really ?
written by lake1, November 04, 2009
Is it true bullying? Or is the issue that a freshman doesn't feel he's being included, is being made fun of (as a group) and doesn't have the same rights as upper classman? If you are being singled out and are being harrassed or bullied then you have a case and you need to discuss it with your counselor, principal and parents and if necessary, law enforcement. BUT if in fact, what you are writing about is that freshman get booed at rallies, are not allowed to sit in the senior quad and can not go to the junior/senior prom then sorry. It's called right of passage. Just like you don't get a drivers license until age 16, doen't get to vote until age 18 and can't buy a drink legally until age 21. Rights of passage babe. It's part of life and you need to understand that there are reasons we are not allowed to do whatever we want when we want.
Keep it up Chance
written by M3gan, November 04, 2009
I just wanted to say something in responce to a previous comment.
"If you are being singled out and are being harrassed or bullied then you have a case and you need to discuss it with your counselor, principal and parents and if necessary, law enforcement."
In case you are unaware Chance has talked to his parents and they are the only people that you have listed that support him. He has confronted the Principal, Vice Principal, and Counselor and they did not help him at all.
Yes, it is true bullying.
written by chezking, November 04, 2009
Though the author is now big enough to not be directly challenged, he has chosen to speak up about the environment that many students continue to endure, and have endured since leaving primary school.

When I said "not one of us would condone in adult society" I meant more than not being coddled or life being fair. Look up "t e a b a g g i n g" and decide how often you would allow that experience to build your character, let alone allow it to be performed on your child. It's just one example of what I'm hearing about the situation at Lakeport schools. An environment that lets out-of-control hazing in a youth environment exist is one that will continue to spiral down as deep as an immature more-is-better pack mentality will take it. Is it really already a distant memory of the lives ruined in the death by water Chico frat prank, and that was among "friends"? Let's all pretend we're adults here and pressure those that are PAID to keep a lid on this not so harmless tomfoolery.
SO I looked up teabagging like you said chez
written by a guest, November 05, 2009
http://www.urbandictionary.com...=teabagger
multiple meanings.
1) one who carries large bags of packaged tea for shipment.
2) a man that squats on top of a womens face known as "teabagging"
3) one who has a job or talent that is low in social status
4) a person who is unaware that they have said or done something foolish, childlike, noobish, lame, or inconvenient.
5) also see "fagbag", "lamer", "noob"
6) A whining fool shouting loudly for liberty but not willing to pay the bill.


Please let us know which definition you were refering to.
T-Bag
written by chezking, November 06, 2009
Weaker students, typically male, are forced to the ground by other male(s) and the squat maneuver is performed. It became a in your face move for online gamers in computer shootem ups after you'd made a kill.

This disconnect how reality differs from cartoons, computer games and the 3 Stooges is the reason some think that kids shouldn't be allowed near the aforementioned activities, though I think that is an unfair generalization. But if specific individuals show the lack of distinction, it is a cause for concern.

This was only brought up to rebut the idea that there is only harmless booing and jostling going on. I repeat, no one needs suffer this or similar kind of abuse, no matter how much character some might think the adversity builds. The author is making parents aware of the problem AND has proposed a solution.

PS - I did really enjoy definition #6, thanks. The fluidity of language is an amazing thing.
Letter of response from a recent Grad of CLHS
written by mrcrister, November 11, 2009
Dear Lake County News Readers,

As a recent graduate of Clear Lake High School with the Class of 2009, I would like to add my own 2 cents to the basket, in hopes that it does not fall on deaf ears.

I have had the opportunity to meet Chance, back when he was in 8th grade. Certainly an ENTJ by Myers Briggs standards. He observes a situation, makes his personal call, and acts on it. I may not agree with the way events have transpired, both from what I have read on Chance's blog and from what I have heard from current students all over the school, but the fact is that Chance makes valid points about the social life there.

As different as CLHS is, as a rural school, from urban, sub-urban, or even other rural schools in the Lake County area, all schools share a few things in common. One of those things is hazing. I am NOT saying that "all" schools have hazing, or that it is acceptable, I am saying that it is not unusual. As the quiet introverted student who knew very few students when first entering as a Cardinal, it is hard for me to understand how someone could be hazed at CLHS, unless you are looking for attention. An occasion comes to mind where, during homecoming week in my freshman year, a particularly jock-y freshman was playing the senior spirit week game. If I remember correctly, the game had something to do with chugging a pint of milk and this freshman spewed the milk out all over a senior's girlfriend. The senior and his buddies chased after him all over the school and popped him in the can before administration was able to go save him. He wasn't intentionally looking for trouble but that was the only occurrence, or at least the most extreme type, of hazing of a freshman that happened that year.

Certainly not all students can be categorized as hazers. Myself and my friends all through school were not those kids who were jerks to everybody, as it is truly the jerk attitude that instigates underclassmen and upperclassmen alike which results in somebody getting canned. I am sure that Chance and his friends will not be those seniors.

My take on the matter is that what has happened, has happened. Commenting in any direction will not change that fact. But what can change is the attitude taken by all sides. If perhaps Chance can take a stand through a positive route. Work with his friends to take that extra step of respect for all other students they meet, no matter what age. Fighting fire with fire will not make matters better, in fact it can make matters worse to a point where Clear Lake truly may no longer be a safe place to learn anymore. The school's theme adopted by the avid Student Council President in the 2008-2009 school year was Unity Through Diversity. She hoped that the school could embrace each student's unique background and turn it into a strong community of learning. After all, a school's first and foremost goal is to educate it's students. However, without the responsible learners, that high level of education can not be obtained.

Clear Lake High School, I wish you good luck in the coming months as you complete this school year. It may seem like a long way off but before you know it, this year's seniors will be walking across the stage in Don Owens Stadium and this year's juniors will become the new seniors. Take pride in your school, it's the only one you have in Lakeport. Would you rather go anywhere else?

A concerned Class of 2009 Graduate, attending school far away from home.
mrcrister

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